Life is Good

Some people are special in the sense that whenever you think of them you can only remember them spreading joy. Brock embodied a happy personality and kind charismatic soul day in and day out for 70 000 odd some days.

We joke that Brock was the only man who had 36 hours in his day because he accomplished far more than anyone else could in 20 years. His spontaneity and ability to laugh at himself left him fearless, ambitious and most of all inspirational.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

I knew Brock from elementary and middle school. His big ears, quirky smile, lanky arms and spiky hair demanded attention from the moment you saw him but his captivating laugh and pun-intended jokes were what truly held you captivated for hours on end as he re-told stories over and over and over again. I’m sure you loved seeing us all sign your casket Brock, with tales you once told us or formed by our side.

They say grief is the price we pay for love and boy is Brock ever loved. I have never seen so many flowers at a visitation, or attendees at a funeral. From past teachers to present friends, babysitters to neighbours, distant friends of friends to close family members, over 350 people flooded the funeral home to pay their respect to Brock. Brock has always been the one that brings people together and he continues to do so as we support one another through this hard time. Even under these tragic circumstances, it was incredible to be reunited with elementary school friends. By sharing memories, revisiting photographs and distracting ourselves with hugs, I found myself receiving a bit of closure on the situation. It was heart wrenching for me to see Brock’s girlfriend, one of my good friends, but I am proud of her for staying so strong. Brock would not have wanted her or anyone for that matter to feel upset which is how Brock’s entire family managed to remain fairly composed. I on the other hand, was a complete mess and even managed to smear waterproof mascara on several occasions.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Losing Brock was an incredible lesson to value the little things in life. While his passing was a reminder that we are not invincible and should always wear our seatbelts, it also taught us to never take opportunities for granted. His final words on Facebook were oh so fitting in remarking “Life is Good”. As mentioned in a speech yesterday, life is good but Brock is incredible.

Brock was one of the few people that would text you in the middle of the night to ask how you were doing. He was one of a kind in the sense that he’d never be too tired to go out, never be too busy to offer advice and never be too poor to shower you with gifts and generosity. He was a daredevil to say the least which is why he’d end up with nose bleeds during cross country skiing, or two broken arms at the same time. It didn’t matter if you hadn’t seen Brock in a couple months; your conversation with him was picked up where you left off. Appearance and intelligence didn’t matter, his love was unconditional regardless unless of course he wanted me to edit his paper, which became a habitual request this past year during his university education.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Maya Angelou once quoted that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Brock made me amongst many others, feel so special. He truly made the world a happier and better place. Brock continues to inspire me to be the best version of myself. He has pushed me out of my comfort zone and his passing was a final reminder to live my life to it’s full potential. There is no excuse, believe in yourself and get it done. A man never truly dies until he is forgotten. Looking back I cannot remember a time when Brock was upset or angry, but there are far too many memories of him grinning to not recall. My fondest memories are of my grade 7 and 8 Brock-o-li but seeing you at cottages and getting together with you as I grew older was very much appreciated as well. Brock, you will continue to touch so many people as you live on in stories. You are already so missed. Celebrating your life isn’t the same without you in it. ♥ Molly

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” – Winston Churchill

In Fond Memory

Sometimes in life we are fortunate to meet people who motivate us to be the best version of ourselves. Yesterday I celebrated the life of someone who continues to embody the role of an inspirer.

Frank Dempsey. To some he was an NFL and CFL athlete, to others he was the best salesman, and to his family he was an amazing husband, father and grandfather. I feel blessed to have met Frank Dempsey, for he is one of the only people that has made me feel beautiful.

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If Frank had been present at his visitation, he would have called it a “Beauty Contest”. Frank made every female, from babies to grandmothers, feel like they were the prettiest person around. From “Miss Universe” to “Miss Canada”, I was a winner but only second to his “Perfect Ten Wife”.

Through memories Frank’s humour, smile, and story will continue to live on. For he will not be gone, until the last person who remembers him fondly is no longer present.

As family remarked, Frank was a BIG man who lived a LARGE life. He demanded everyone’s attention when he entered a room because he not only filled it in size, but also with his bold personality. If he had a goal, he would achieve it. He knew how to create the most out of a buffet table, find light in every opportunity, and make strangers feel like his best friend. His generosity touched so many lives as he made bighearted donations, and opened his home to all.

Words cannot even begin to describe how well Frank Dempsey lived his life. He was an interesting man who lived an adventurous life. He was the unofficial mayor of Downtown Oakville as he greeted all who passed him in his motor vehicle. Frank was an important man, so important that Wikipedia even created a page about him!

You will be tremendously missed Frankie D. Going forward I will always ask myself “What would Frank do?. ♥ Molly

“There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.” – John Holmes